With the exception of the dark times of Little Miss Pessimist, I try really hard to remain optimistic and moving forward every day.
I DO NOT post negativity and “pity me” status updates on any of the social networks, and generally hide or block those that do.
My motto is please don’t drop your drama in my space.
I have a 3 year old with enough toys to cover the whole state of Washington, so it’s safe to say there is no space for you to leave your drama anywhere near me!
The only exception is made for Friends and Family in need. Whenever someone close to me is feeling sad or stressed or confused or lost I am there.
Anytime, Anywhere, Anything. They can call me and I’ll listen and be there.
Wait a minute... that’s a song isn’t it?
Actually truth be told, it doesn’t always have to be just friends and family. Clients, co-workers, friends of friends, acquaintances in my writing class, random shoppers at the grocery store…
It doesn’t matter who it is, or what their situation, if I sense they are struggling with something, my knee jerk reaction if to offer them some nugget of wisdom or advice. Something to help highlight the silver lining hidden within the personal grey cloud they are struggling under.
Then advice given, they can skip merrily on their way, and take their drama with them. That’s a fair trade right?
In fact I offer positive advice (both solicited and annoyingly unsolicited) so often that the other day I had an epiphany and wrote this down in one of my notebooks,
“Just Call me Pep Talk Polly!”
My super hero persona? Perhaps. One of the voices in my head? Certainly not!
Now, here’s the ironic part.
I am notorious for giving pep talks to each and every needy person I come in contact with, and generally feel obliged to point out the positive in any horrible situation I come up against, but I am completely incapable of doing the same for myself.
Even though I strive to recognize the good and positive all around me, sometimes I feel kind of lost.
My dreams and ideas seem too big, and I feel so small and insignificant. There are so many amazing talented people in this world, and I feel pretty normal and mundane. Sometimes, I have a hard time believing I will ever rise above and succeed.
Sometimes I really need the swift kick in the pants that only Pep Talk Polly can deliver.
It’s REALLY hard to practice what you preach.
While I’m struggling to walk-the-walk , I think I’m going to keep Pep Talk Polly around for a while. She seems cool, always good for a laugh, doesn’t take up too much closet space. I think we’re going to get up to some very entertaining hijinks together here in Mandyland. Best to stay tuned!
How about you? Got any alter egos? Or maybe you need a smack from Pep Talk Polly? Don’t be shy, we love to hear from you!
Naming the voice in your head isn’t crazy, right?